Umm, does she like me ???

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Umm, does she like me ???

by Ryan
(Mississippi, USA)

OK I'm a guy who is dating an Italian girl who is 13. I'm 15. But yeah, we have been dating for almost a week maybe.

So, the other night we went to my friends house. There were a lot of us. It was fun (not the point). So, later that night we got in one of those chairs that the legs come up and we laid together. I was stroking her arm and hugging her while we laid there. The only thing she did was kinda stroke my hand for a second or two (was she scared or does she not like me?) If she didn't like me why would she let me touch her, right? I don't know.

But, yeah so she thinks I'm a jealous mess when I'm not and I'm not. Seriously I'm not. She says she like me but what should I do? Is she scared of dating or of us doing stuff? Or what? We have hugged, never kissed ( I'm scared to kiss I always think my breath is gross, or I suck at kissing(eating face) i don want that). So, can you help before my relationship gets messed up?

Thanks a million!

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Nov 30, 2009

Gosh you are silly... it is obvious
by: Anonymous

come on ur girl has totally messed with u if u cant get ur head straight, say bye to ur relation ship.

Feb 16, 2009

Your Welcome Anytime
by: Doctor Doom

Your quite welcome...
As far as I know, I'm not a computer.

If you have any other questions, feel free to come back and ask to your heart's content. Creative Dating Ideas was built to help people like yourself.

Like I said, take things slowly, and things will go fine. The less "worried" you seem, the more she'll like you.

Don't worry, girls will only be confusing for... well, girls will always be confusing, but it gets easier to interpret as you go along...

Feb 15, 2009

ok first doctor doom
by: ryan again..

doctor doom I FREAKING LOVE THAT and second ok we are young so true on the slowy part sorry about the question my head is filled with things i dont even know about you really helped me umm i dont know how to say this but if thier is ever anythign i can do for you or this website let me know i honestly thoguht i would get some crackpot computer instead of a human thansk soo much for the advice if i ever need anything can i come back and it will be you or is this a computer or person

Feb 15, 2009

Ryan, Ryan, Ryan
by: Doctor Doom

Firstly: Way to go man, an Italian girl!

Secondly: Take a deep breath. Hold it. And... exhale.

Now, your question was a freakin' hurricane of adolescent crazy thoughts. But, that's normal. I remember being your age, and worrying constantly about all the same stuff you just manically banged out through your keyboard.

To be honest, I think you need to try to downshift your brain machine into a lower gear when you're with your lady. You're over thinking things.

If she said she likes you, I'm inclined to believe her. Just because she didn't reciprocate the physical affection you were dishing out, doesn't mean she doesn't like you. She probably just has no idea what she's doing, sort of like, umm, you.

You both are very young. You need to take things SLOWLY. Be content just spending time together, holding hands and such. Being any more forward might make her feel uncomfortable, which makes sense for how young she is.

When the time feels right, go for the kiss. You need to get over your fear of kissing, because kissing is awesome. Just make sure your breath is solid, and refrain from "eating face". Just a simple kiss will do.

If she doesn't run away, she likes you.

Hope this helps...

-Doctor Doom

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