Surviving a Long
Distance Relationship

However, despite all the challenges, surviving a long distance relationship is possible. And, if done right, it can make your connection with each other that much stronger.

Here is some practical long distance relationship advice to help you feel connected, even when you're far apart.

Write Letters

Not e-mails, but letters. Something wonderful happens when a letter travels a great distance. Something that is lost with e-mail, or text messages.

So, supplement your 21st century communication with the more antiquated method. Give your partner a stack of envelopes pre-addressed and stamped, to make it easier for them.

The best part about real letters is that they become mementos. When you're finally back together again, you'll each have a box full of correspondences that will make romantics everywhere jealous as hell.

Swap Stuff

That's right, give each other a few personal items to hold onto. Get creative. It could be anything from your favorite sweatshirt to an old journal.

Being able to hold on to something tangible that belongs to the person you miss, can be wonderfully therapeutic. Whenever you're feeling particularly far away, bust out your thing and give it a hug.

Video Chat

Thank God for technology. Video chatting is a great way to feel close to someone who is far away.

All you need is a web cam and some good video conferencing software, and you'll be able to see each other while talking. The benefits are obvious. You can even Video Chat on Your Cell Phone.

You'll be able to see each other smiling, laughing and... well, there are other possibilities i won't get into here.

Read Together

One of the problems with a long distance relationship is that you want to talk often, but it's easy to quickly run out of interesting things to say.

So, decide on a book to read together, and buy a copy for yourself, and a copy for your partner. Plan on reading a chapter a week, so you're always in the same part of the book.

This way, you'll always have an interesting topic of conversation. And, it will be comforting every time you read, knowing that your loved one could be reading the same sentence at the same time.

Here are some great Romantic Books to consider.

Surprises

Little and big surprises will go a long way in keeping your relationship strong. A pleasant, romantic surprise shows your partner that you're committed to their happiness.

Consider sending a nice gift basket for no reason, or best of all, plan a surprise visit. Every time you surprise your partner, you'll rejuvenate the relationship, and keep it from long distance monotony.

Communicate Clearly

Clear and open communication is so important for surviving a long distance relationship. You both need to be clear on the status of the relationship, and any rules of conduct.

Any confusion can lead to arguments and a possible break up, so make sure to lay out your needs up front, and be honest with your requirements.

But, you must also acknowledge the realities and limits of a long distance relationship. If you go into it aware of the challenges, but enthusiastic about the possibilities, you'll survive your long distance relationship.

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They have a lot of gifts that are perfect for surviving a long distance relationship, like these adorable pillowcases.

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