Should I marry him?

by lucy
(kent)

Hey ive been in a relationship,
for about a year,
and my boyfriend really wants to marry me,
we both love each other so so so much
but im not sure if i want to marry him yet,
does that question my love for him??





Answer:

Go with your first instinct.

Just because you don't want to get married right away doesn't mean you don't love him. It just means you don't want to get married yet.

Think of it like buying a house. You wouldn't want to rush and buy a home before you were 100% sure you were ready to deal with all the complexities and responsibility of homeownership.

The same goes for relationships. You can love someone deeply and still not quite be ready to commit to the responsibilities required of a good spouse.

The difficult thing is going to be trying to explain this to him.