Should I let my girlfriend use a strap on... on me?

My girlfriend went to the sex store the other day and bought this strap-on. I really didnt think anything of it, because she is a bi-sexual. But she has been my live in girlfriend for almost three years now. And this past year, we have been a lot more kinky.

Well, i said something to her about the strap-on, something like, "i cant wait to see you use that thing". And she laughed, and said "What if i bought it to use on you." and i was speachless.. she then told me that she wanted to use it on me for her birthday, and it was a fantasy of hers....




Answer:

The popular sex columnist Dan Savage helped come up with a great term for girlfriends who use strap-ons with their boyfriends. It's called "pegging"... (the runner up was BOB, short for bend over boyfriend). Pegging, as it turns out, is a fairly common kink.

Should you go through with it? Well, you certainly not required too. But, does the idea turn you on at all? My guess is that it does, at least a little. If it didn't, you probably wouldn't even be considering it.

So, if you are open to trying it out, you definitely should. There are two good reasons:

1. The idea of bending you over obviously turns on your girlfriend... a lot. Indulging your partner's desires is important for a relationship to thrive.

2. You might really like it. You never know till you try. A lot of straight guys love getting it from their girlfriends... You wouldn't be the first.

So, if you're feeling adventurous, give it a try, and if it's not your cup of tea, it's not like you're required to keep on doing it for all eternity. Just explain to your girlfriend that your not into it. Simple as that.

Good Luck,

Editor, CDI