Relationship problems

by amy fultner
(hoxie,ar,usa)

What should I do if my husband is always in a hateful mood toward me and everyone in the family. He gets really hateful to me when he comes in from work.

ANSWER:

Hey Amy,

I'm so sorry to hear of your troubles. Living with an inconsiderate person can be one of the worst things to have to deal with.

You need to be upfront with your husband. Tell him that you won't be able to stay with him if he continues to be hateful towards you and the family. Tell him that if he doesn't change his ways, you will leave him. And you should Amy. If he can't be a loving spouse, then he should not be your spouse.

Also, if you have kids, it certainly isn't fair to them to have to grow up around such negativity. A divorce is never fun, but it is better than being unhappy and living in possible danger.

If he doesn't clean up his act, dump the motherfucker.