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Not sure if he's interested  I am attracted to this guy I work with, but I am pretty shy.

He has asked me about my weekend plans several times, made me laugh, light flirting going ...

Long Distance? Internet? Help!  Okay, first of all I want to thank whoever helps me out with this situation. (:


My name is Chelsea and I am 17. My boyfriends name is Zane and he ...

fairytale relationship   Hello my name is Jim,
I am 17 years old and met a 16 year old girl whilst on my summer vacation in Italy.
We met at the same hotel we were staying at ...

What to do? I'm in love with my friend.  Hi,

I'm a 21 year old male who met a 19 years old girl i would say 5 years ago, lets say back in high school. We started to be friends and i started ...

Falling Out of Love: Do I Destory Her Happiness For Mine?   From Max, Age: 19 Sex: Male

A girlfriend is not something you can dispose of if you start to lose interest in or find yourself looking at other girls....

HOW TO GET HIM BACK  I WAS ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED AND I'VE BEEN ARGUING AND FIGHTING WITH MY EX FIANCE BECAUSE OF A LOT OF STRESS I'M UNDER. HE CALLED THE WEDDING OFF 26 DAYS ...

Boyfriend needs some time apart  I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We met in a very special way and we're honestly so in love. Everything is perfect between us, he ...

Sexy Stories  I enjoy hearing my girlfriend's past sexual experiences, she is reluctant to tell, is their any way to make her feel comfortable to open up and tell all?...

i met this guy at a party...  and he admitted that he liked me. We stared at each other for almost the whole time. He has called me twice since then, but i have been waiting for the ...

little or no interest in sex  I have tried and tried to arouse his interest but to no avail... He talks about sex but he does not seem to be that interested in actually doing anything....

Keeps bring up the past  My husband keeps bringing up my past mistake(an affair),esp. when we have conflict or disagree on something. He has never forgiven me even though I apologize ...

crush or something more?   So the other weekend I saw my crush. We kinda dated freshman year in college for a few weeks but nothing really worked out and we went our separate ways....

Should i continue my relationship?  I am facing regular arguments and small fights in my relationship. Lately, one of my old friend whom i used to like before i met my girlfriend proposed ...

is he sexually attreacted to me?  I'm 18, female and i've been seeing a guy for 4 months now and have had discussions about being together.

We have had sex several times, but each time ...

Nervous about first dates in years  Hello. I’m a 26-year-old woman who hasn’t really dated all that much since my teens up to now. I barely get first dates and if I do i manage to get a first ...

What to do?  What does it mean when a girl says she is unsure, but she hasn't given up on the relationship?

How to know if he likes me without letting on...  Hi everybody...

So, i've had a crush on this boy who is two grades above me. He is an incredibly nice person and that's making it really hard to tell ...

Umm, does she like me ???  OK I'm a guy who is dating an Italian girl who is 13. I'm 15. But yeah, we have been dating for almost a week maybe.

So, the other night we went to ...

Do you think the doctor will go out with me?  My dad needed surgery, I went with him to his consult, i did not notice the surgeon at all. We returned for his pre-op consult, and i felt someone staring ...

If a girl tells you she loves you like a brother, is this code for anything?  My best friend told me that she loves me like a brother, and I told her I love her like a sister. The two of us are casual about hugging, linking arms,...

Friends getting in the way of romantic relationship...  im seeing this girl now for 6 months now and we really get on well, we cant believe how things are after happening so quick but we didnt try slow them ...

Is dating multiple people at once OK?  What is it called when someone meets 3-4 of the same men for dinner, texting them daily, talking daily on the phone, kissing once in a while, flirting-...

Is he in love with me?  I met a guy 4 weeks ago. I think I'm falling for him, I'd like to know what you think about some things he did or said: he lives 40 minutes away and always ...

Should I see him again?  I (female) attended a professional meeting and meet a male colleague the first time. I realized that his eyes checked me out and followed me. I was somehow ...

Should I marry him?  Hey ive been in a relationship,
for about a year,
and my boyfriend really wants to marry me,
we both love each other so so so much
but im not sure ...

dating man whose long term partner has alzheimers  I do not want to get involved with an unavailable man.

I met a man who seems perfect for me except I learned that his long term live in girlfriend has ...

Should I ask if I am his girlfriend?  So I have been talking to this guy for four months and finally met him in spur of the moment trip. He lives in Kentucky and I live in Wisconsin. We hit ...

Is my coworker attracted to me?  I am married, 45 years, loving wife, 2 children. I live alone in a foreign country. My family is in home country.

In my workplace, I came across a married ...

help with a fun and creative date idea!  Please help! Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for about four months and we have done all the normal date ideas; movies, mall, swimming, walked ...

How to turn down a nice guy.  How do I turn down a really nice guy I don't like. Not because I like someone else, but just because I don't like him. I don't want to hurt his feelings ...

3 years liking someone so I moved on now he feels something for me  3 years ago I started falling for this boy 2 years older than me, but every time i tried to tell him I liked him he would say he didn't feel nothing back....

First Date Birthday Gift ideas  I feel like I should buy him something to make the occasion. He is turning 42. We both have two kids and our divorces were final a few months ago. He have ...

girlfriend wants me to shave body hair   My girlfriend is a very beautiful woman but when we have sex she doesn't like the feeling of all my body hair on her so she wants me to shave it off. would ...

is he a player or just shy?  i met this guy from online dating. we chatted for 1 week before we met. first date went great. we opened up a little bit about our past and what we wanted ...

How to approach certain girl  There's a girl I really like but I'm not sure how to approach her. The thing is she works in a bank and there are 5 tellers in the department she works ...

Does my friend like me  I've been friends with Michael for 2 years now. We started out as coworkers, then recently began hanging out more - watching videos, listening to music,...

Am I falling out of love?   I have been dating this girl now for 5 years, I am a female who has had relationships with both males and females in the past. I have been with my girlfriend ...

Student teacher relationship a good idea?  I am 19 years old. I am a girl. I read in college. A teacher in my college seemed to like me. He gives me preferences. He gave me his mail id and phone ...

do men get engagement rings?  When the guy asks you to marry him and gives you an engagement ring, does the girl have to give him a ring too? Is there such thing as a guy engegement ...

Being blackmailed with sex tape...   There's this girl in my Pre-Law class so i casually asked her out on a date. We had a great time we were laughing flirting and touching.

Well I went ...

What can I do to show her that I am sorry?  I am a thirty six year old man, who has been in a relationship with a woman for almost three years.

My girlfriend says we cannot continue with our ...

One night stand, or long term relationship?   My friend whose a girl was helping me clean up after a pool party and we started flirting, talking and laughing so we were standing by the pool and she ...

boyfriend is suspicious when i hang out with another guy  hello. this is Claire I am 20yrs. I want to know why my boyfriend would get so angry by the truth. there is a guy who likes me and so my man is not really ...

Need advice on meeting girlfriend's parents.  My girlfriend is pretty serious about dating me and I like her a lot and she wants me to meet her family.

She comes from a big close family and my ...

bestfriend wants me to take her virginity  if a best friend wants you to take her virginity ...does that means she loves more than a friend?



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Does she love me instead of him?  See... I'm in 4th grade and I like a girl in my class but this other boy likes her too. So we're letting her vote. Who do you think she will choose?...

Should she move in with me   My girlfriend and I were together for around three months and I never realized how much I loved her till I was really sick and she took care of me.

I ...

Who should say "I love you" first?  I am 17, young, yes. But That doesn't mean I don't know what love is. My boyfriend is 2 years older than I am and I am his first real relationship. He ...

Boyfriend's Mom is Dying  I have posted a few questions on here in regards to my boyfriends Mom having Alzheimer's and is not doing to well. It appears that her body could possibly ...

When do you know a relationship is over?  OK IM A 20YR. OLD FEMALE AND IN A 2 YEAR ON N OFF RELATIONSHIP: I DON'T KNOW IF HE STILL WANT TO BE WITH ME, ITS LIKE HE FINDS SOMETHING OR IF IM MAD ABOUT ...

boyfriend needs time and space  Three weeks ago I met a man through an online dating service. We had an incredible evening and he asked to see me the next night.

We seemed to really ...

How to convince her to give me another chance?  I need help. Me and my girlfriend were engaged and after being together 5 years we broke up. We had our arguments and fights but only in the last 2 years ...

Why hasn't he called?  I have been talking to a man i met on a online dating service. We had great conversation, we finally met on thursday night in person. it was fireworks,...

Should I date this stripper ?  I have a question. It's kind of a long story. I don't really have a problem picking up women, but I quickly realized it wasn't for me because I tend ...

He won't say I love you  I have been with this man for about a year and a half now but he has never said he loves me. About a year ago I told him that I loved him and he told me ...

Problems with getting the relationship started!  Dear Sir/Madam,

First, I'd like to thank you for your assistance. It's a privilege for me to be asking this question. All my life I have dated only ...

man does not show affection  What if you are passionate and romantic and affectionate, but your man wants you to presume and just know that he likes you, and hardly ever does romantic ...

Does he want a relationship or a fling?  Hi
I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months and i feel like we have some kind of connection. But, i often get confused about the kind of relationship ...

he wants us to be close friends?  My question is, why is it that some guys say that they find it hard to trust women because they have been hurt in the past and they wouldn't want to hurt ...

Does he secretly like me?  I met a man online and we chatted for 2 and a half years but never met in person. We had a heated argument and that ended things. It got to the point where ...

Should he delete his online dating profile?  I recently found a man on an online dating service. We instantly hit it off and have been seeing each other for over a week now. In fact he told me as ...

When is the right time to say "i love you"?  How do you know when the right time is to tell them you love them?



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This, of course, is a very subjective question. There really is ...

can i date my best friend's ex girlfriend  This girl and I are great friends but she has a boyfriend. Unfortunately her boyfriend is my best friend. Now she always flirts with me touches me, calls ...

will she take me back after rehab?  My girlfriend and I had been together for two and a half years, then my parents got divorced and I took up some unhealthy coping habits such as marijuana ...

hate moms new boyfriend  Does my mom hate me because she thinks i hate her boyfriend?



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Hey Hannah... Thanks for your question.

No matter what you think ...

We Keep Breaking Up  I am involved with someone who has a split personality it seems. On one hand she is kind, generous and loving. On the other she is controlling, manipulative,...

Does she still like me, after all this?  Okay I'm in high school and My ex and I have been apart for 3 years but we still have unresolved feelings toward each other. Anyway she always hangs out ...

How do I tell him that I like him without scaring him off?  OK, so here's the lowdown. There is a guy in my class who is (i'll just say it) the absolute most adorable dork in the world. He is really funny and we ...

guy blames everything on my age  Well i have been in a relationship with a guy who is 46 for a year and 8 months, i am 20. All the way through the relationship he blames everything on ...

How do I get this boy to notice me?  I have a guy i like and i want to know if he likes me. i am a grade nine girl and i think he may know me and like me but he doesn't show it. How do i get ...

Starting a relationship  How do you know when a guy wants a relationship rather than just to date?


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In general, Hannah, moving from dating to a relationship (what ...

Do i need to leave this man  I have been fooling around with this guy for 10 years without a real relationship. I have been pregnant by him but I got an abortion about 8 yrs ago. I ...

Falling out of love?  Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months now and it's not going so great. The first 6 months were fine because we were very close and ...

How do I get her back? Girlfriend ended it out of the blue.   So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn'...

Relationship problems  What should I do if my husband is always in a hateful mood toward me and everyone in the family. He gets really hateful to me when he comes in from work....

love?  I'm in love with this girl and i think she loves me as well. I wanted to get married, but her mother is against me. She's still with me for the time ...

Does she still love me should i worry does she have good intentions  My ex girlfriend and i have known each other since pre k. We are now in High school and are pretty good friends again since the break up. My parents love ...

Emotionally unavailable men  I always seem to fall for or attract emotionally unavailable men? How do i figure out why and what steps can I take to change this? I keep getting involved ...

Friends with benefits  Will the man I'm totally crazy about respect me for turning him down on his offer for friends with benefits or am i missing something and he does not respect ...

Looking for affection.  Me and my boyfriend, Chris, have been together for a few weeks now and he took the week off of his work to stay with me. It's supposed to be one of those ...

Anniversary Advice  Hi,

I can't believe I'm doing this, but here goes--my one-year dating anniversary is this weekend (7 days and counting), and I have absolutely no idea ...

Anniversary Gift Idea  Hi,

I can't believe I'm doing this, but here goes--my one-year dating anniversary is this weekend (7 days and counting), and I have absolutely no idea ...

affection and sex  So, I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now and I'm fighting not to leave. Almost every time we are about to have sex, something is wrong ...

He cheated on me, but said he loves me.  What happens if i heard he cheated on me and i confronted him about it and for the first time he told me he loved me?


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What happens? What ...

Break up? She is controlling and jealous.  I am 21. My girlfriend is 19. We both attend Universities. We have been dating for a year and a half. She does everything for me. She is there for anything ...

Break up? She is controlling and jealous.  I am 21. My girlfriend is 19. We both attend Universities. We have been dating for a year and a half. She does everything for me. She is there for anything ...

Best Friend Being Cheated On  I have a best friend that's has been in a relationship for 1 year with this 40 year old guy who has 4 kids by 4 woman. He has cheated on her with another ...

Letting go of the little things  I love my girlfriend very very much, i believe i want to live the rest of my life with her. However, last night she said she doesn't want to have to hide ...

Umm, does he like me ?  Okay so basically there is this guy i like, i am 16 and he is only a year or so older than me. last night i went to a party, and fights went on about this ...