little or no interest in sex

May 12, 2009

Get it or get out...
by: Doctor Doom

Shirley, you must be kidding...

OK... Just a little joke to start off there. It's out of the way.

Now, let me begin by saying that everybody has a sex drive that is all their own. Some require a good romp in the hay every day, while others would be fine with a more annual routine. So, it is completely natural for two people in a relationship to have lopsided sex drives.

That said, for a relationship to thrive, the sex life needs to be satisfying for both partners. It's important. Really important.

So, here's my advice. First, have a talk with him. See if there as anything special you can do to turn him on, or make him more interested in sex. He may just have some kink that he is to embarrassed to bring up out of the blue, so let him know that you're open to getting creative. Then, he'll either open up and your sex life will improve, or he won't because he' just not that interested in sex. You'll figure that out pretty quickly.

If it's the latter, Shirley, you should dump this guy quick. Everyone has the right to a good sex life, and believe me, there are plenty of guys out there that are interested in having sex... If you do decide to stay with him, you'll just grow to resent him more and more. So, move on.

I hope this was helpful, and I wish you luck...

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