is it a relationship???
by shristy
(nepal)
i have a wife who's a guy and we're very close..
In fact i've never been so attached and never connected on such level with anyone i've always been the kind of girl who wouldn't let a guy get 6 feet close to her,,,but i feel lucky to have found him and what we share is beautiful...we both feel lucky to have found each other but we're not together as in we fall into the category of best friends but we kind of take the place of girlfriend and boyfriend in the lives of each other respectively..people who know us well name it love..but we kind of ignore..but he has proposed and has said on a couple of occasions dat im the one for him... and whenever we're together it's always like a first date...it's purely genuine and beautiful...both of us know it....what is it?? could it be love?? or are we really just best friends and nothing else..best friends aren't supposed to act like soulmates are they..??
Answer:
That sounds like love to me.
Also, if every time you hang out feels as good as a first date, then you're in good shape for a relationship. Most people aren't so lucky.
Do you feel like you could possibly meet someone better for you then this guy? If not, then what are you waiting for? Yes, it's already a relationship. you just need to change your point of view.