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Submitted by: Doctor Doom

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Hey Alex. The amount and type of stimulation required to achieve orgasm is different for everybody. So, just because your boy can't ejaculate from coitus does not say anything about his level of attraction to you, sexual or otherwise. Believe me, your guy could come in 30 seconds, but still not really be attracted to you. It's all relative. The key to a healthy sexual relationship is communication. Ask if there is anything different you can do to make sex more enjoyable for him. But, he may just prefer oral, and require it for ejaculation. And that's cool. It could be worse... He could need you to dress up like a baby and wet the bed for him to get his rocks off. Know what i mean? One last note though... You need to look out for yourself too. Do you enjoy the sex? Do you prefer oral? He is requesting what he need for sexual satisfaction, which is perfectly valid. It's not a sign of disrespect. But, you should do the same... You deserve mind blowing orgasms as well. If you guys get to the point where both of you are getting off on a regular basis, you should be pleased. You'll be ahead of 90% of sexually active couples. So, don't fret if your sex doesn't end up seeming like normal sex. There is no such thing. Just communicate clearly with one another, and have fun.

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