HOW TO GET HIM BACK

by Trina
(FT,WAYNE)

I WAS ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED AND I'VE BEEN ARGUING AND FIGHTING WITH MY EX FIANCE BECAUSE OF A LOT OF STRESS I'M UNDER. HE CALLED THE WEDDING OFF 26 DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING AND SAID HE CAN'T DO IT ANYMORE.

I'VE TRIED TALKING TO HIM SEVERAL TIMES AND HE WON'T TALK TO ME BUT HE CAME OVER THREE TIMES AND WE WERE INTIMATE WITH EACH OTHER.I TELL HIM THAT I WILL CHANGE AND HE WILL TELL ME THAT I'LL NEVER CHANGE.

HE HAS SENSE THEN ENLISTED INTO THE ARMY WHICH HE WASN'T PLANNING TO GO UNTIL SEPTEMBER BUT HE ASK TO LEAVE SOONER AND HAS BEEN GONE FOR 22 DAYS NOW.I HAVN'T HEARD FROM HIM OR ANYTHING AND I'VE LEFT VOICE MAILS ON HIS CELL PHONE AND ALSO SENT HIM EMAILS BUT HE STILL WON'T RESPOND.

I LOVE HIM AND I REALIZE THAT WHAT I WAS DOING TO HIM WAS WRONG SO I'M WORKING ON CHANGING. HE'S HAD FAMILY AND FRIENDS TELL HIM NOT TO BE WITH JUST MOVE ON AND HIS FAMILY DON'T LIKE ME CAUSE I'M OLDER THEN HIM AND EVERY TIME WE HAVE A FIGHT HE GOES BACK AND TELL THEM ABOUT IT. ANY ADVICE ON HOW I CAN GET THE MAN THAT I LOVE BACK?



ANSWER:

Trina,

As hard as it might be, I think you might need to let go of this guy... Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who cancels your wedding that is 28 days away, and whose family "hates" you?

I think you can do better Trina. You'll find someone new soon enough. And the new guy's family is going to love you.