First Kiss Advice
I wish i had had some first kiss advice when i was younger. First kisses are always so nerve racking. But, the good news is that once your lips touch, all the fear and stress of a first kiss is gone. So, lets get to that point.
Prep Work You don't want a first kiss to come completely out of the blue. So, when you're hanging out with the person you want to kiss, slowly break down the physical barrier over the course of the date. Put your arm around your date as soon as it makes sense, or take a hold of your date's hand. This will signal your attraction and make the prospect of a kiss seem more appropriate.
Most first kisses come at the end of a date. Which is OK. But, I don't like the end-of-the-date kiss precisely for that reason. All of the expectation and inevitability of this kiss increases the chances of it being awkward. So, my first kiss advice is to go for it somewhere in the last third of the date, but not right at the end. This way you can avoid the awkward doorstep moment. Also, you'll come off seeming a little more confident, and there's the added bonus of being able to kiss a few more times before the date comes to an end. Any transition between activities could be a good time for the first kiss, but look out for...
What are kiss-me signals? I don't know, i just made it up, but it seems self explanatory. These are signals that your partner wants a kiss already! A kiss may be imminent if your date:
Nike knows something about kissing. Whether or not the perfect moment presents itself, if you want to kiss someone, and you think they might want a kiss from you, just go for it. Too many kisses have never happened because someone doesn't want to seem presumptious. When i was younger, i would date someone for months without kissing them becuase i didn't want to look like a douche. What a waste. I know better now. The best first kiss advice i can give is to, no matter what, kiss the person you want to kiss as soon as possible. You'll be happy you did.
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