Does she still love me?

(Amarillo, Texas)

I am 25 year old male. My girlfriend is a 24 year old female and I am deeply in love with her. I want everything to work out but often I am thinking she doesn't love me like she says she does.

We may see each other maybe once a week and she never answers when i call. But, she will text me or when i do see her she always seems to need something and that seems like the only reason I get to see her.

Is it stupid of me to want this to work its own way out cause i am that much in love with her?



Answer:

Hi there,

Is it stupid? No. That's normal. When you love someone, you try to make it work. You always hope that it will.

Now, I can't tell you whether or not she loves you. It's impossible to know these things. But, you should trust how you feel. If she's not showing you the amount of love that you need, there is a problem.

Don't drag it out. If you're unhappy, tell her you want to take a break. If she fights to keep you, then you may have shocked her into realizing that she loves you and needs to work harder to keep you.

If she doesn't fight for you, then you know it was inevitable. At least this way you have control over the situation. You won't be caught off guard some day. Also, you'll feel better about yourself by taking action as opposed to waiting around to get dumped.

Good Luck... And i'm sorry you're unhappy. But worry not, there are plenty of fish in the sea.



Editor, CDI