Does she still like me, after all this?

by Thomas Berg
(nashville)

Okay I'm in high school and My ex and I have been apart for 3 years but we still have unresolved feelings toward each other. Anyway she always hangs out with me but I took up pot and alcohol and it sorta spun out of control and i had an automobile accident. Both of my legs are broken and i had Alcohol and pot in my bloodstream. A lot of my friends were there to see me.

Anyway, she was the first there and the last one to go. And she brought me a lot of food too. When i got better I had to go to rehab for my problems and she said to me, "will you get better for me? I want the old you back the one i fell in love with a long time ago".

I really would like to get back together with her, but I'm not sure if she still wants to go out with me...




Answer:

Well, it sounds like she still likes you, and wants you to get better in all the ways that you need to get better... This is good.

But, it won't be easy. You'll actually need to become more responsible and considerate (towards yourself, and others), if you want to get her back.

It's possible that she won't trust you again until you prove that you've changed in a positive way. So, use this as motivation. She should inspire you to become a better, more stable, more responsible person.

Attraction is rooted in the biological need and desire for reproduction and the successful raising of offspring. If you want this girl to be more attracted to you, you need to prove that you're healthy and responsible enough to be a good partner for her.

If she knows you are making these improvements because of her, and the desire to make her happy, she will love you even more for it.

So, your job is to show this girl that you care for her, by taking care of yourself.


Michael B. - Editor, CDI