Does he secretly like me?

by Angela Richards
(Downingtown, Pa)

I met a man online and we chatted for 2 and a half years but never met in person. We had a heated argument and that ended things. It got to the point where I would call him to apologize and he shot me down.

Now in May of 2009 I noticed he viewed my profile but I never said anything. Now he has a girlfriend that is so involved in his life it's not even funny. I wouldn't be surprise if she tells him to breath or not.

Well, I noticed that he called the cops on her over a disagreement they had and she took him back; the thing is as much as he says he doesn't want me or threatens to call the cops on me. I notice he never did. He called on her but not on me. Why is that?




Answer:

Ummm... OK. Well, just because he never called the cops on you doesn't mean that he secretly likes you. I mean, maybe he does, but the one does not necessarily follow from the other.

I would just ask him, if you're really interested...

But, should you even care? It seems like this guy has his own stuff going on. He might not be the "one" for you. I'd try out some other pastures and see if they are any greener.

Good Luck,

Michael B, CDI Editor