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crush or something more?

by Helen
(Chicago)

So the other weekend I saw my crush. We kinda dated freshman year in college for a few weeks but nothing really worked out and we went our separate ways. Earlier this year I ran into him and he seemed really excited to see me. I am no longer in town but we've kinda kept in contact online. Anyways, I saw him a month or so ago and he seemed shy but a bit standoffish. This past weekend my friends and I went to his house party. At first he danced with some other girls and stuff but then we started dancing and towards the end of the night, we made out (he initiated it) and I spent the night. We didn't have sex because I didn't want to but he still kept being touchy feely when we were cuddling. He is a good guy and he hasn't been with a girl for a year. This was supported by a friend of mine. He is very handsome but very picky/has very high standards when it comes to girls. He kept asking me about my relationship history and such when we were in bed. He seemed very curious about me. My question is why do you think he kept asking about my relationship history? Do you think he likes me and wants a relationship with me and he was fishing for information? He never just hooks up with girls and i know he only looks for serious relationships. I really like him but we currently live in 2 different states. Advice? Does he like me?

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Apr 06, 2009
Helen,
by: Doc. Lovington

When a guy is curious about a girl's relationship history, he is usually trying to ascertain whether or not her relationship tendencies are compatible with his. In other words, he was probably trying to figure out if you were a hook-up girl, a girl friend girl, or a bit of the two.

Or, maybe he was just drunk.

But, from what you've told me, it seems like you're boy is at least somewhat into you. You did say he's pretty picky... And, this isn't the first time he has expressed interest in you. But, the real question might be what you want, or expect to get out of this crush. Long distance relationships can work sometimes, but it's certainly not an ideal way to start a relationship.

If you like this guy, my advice is to keep in contact with him. Be flirty. Send him the occasional youtube video of sleepy kittens... etc. If it's meant to be, you two will eventually conspire to be together somehow.

Hope this helps... Good luck!

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