boyfriend is suspicious when i hang out with another guy
by soso
(malaysia)
hello. this is Claire I am 20yrs. I want to know why my boyfriend would get so angry by the truth. there is a guy who likes me and so my man is not really comfortable with it and so he does not like it if is see him and i dont tell him. since i love my boyfriend so much there is one night i meet this other guy and we talk like friends coz i have always made it clear that my man comes first in every thing but unfortunately he does not believe because i rarely hang put with my man but we see each other and understand ourselves in our own way we do not have to show the whole world .so this night after the guy leaves i text my boyfriend to tell him that i was with this guy so if he had it from somewhere else he would be surprised and also told him that there was nothing we just talked .but funny enough my boyfriend stopped talking to me and it kills me i have tried to apologize but he does not want to talk to me and i asked him to tell me if he is tired he should let me know so that i do not disturb him but he will not respond. why yet i did it for love and i want to know i was wrong to tell him or if not why did he he get so angry? o.k at least he should tell me to stop disturbing him but he also will not do it so im confused i want to know what he thinks and does he really love me coz i have pleaded and tired now yet i miss him soooo much i want to be with him. why do u think he does not want to talk to me. if it was someone else they would not even have told him but i did so so why the anger all of a sudden?
Answer:
He may think that you told him because you feel guilty. ie, you did something that you need to feel guilty about.
You need to talk with your boyfriend and lay out some ground rules. Maybe he would feel better about the whole thing if you would let him know before you are going to hang out with this other guy?
You should be able to have friends outside of your boyfriend. But, you also shouldn't be giving your boyfriend reason to be suspicious. Keep everything honest and out in the open, and everything should go more smoothly...